Joby Martin // How Men Show Value: Ephesians 5 Applied

We break down Ephesians 5 with a straight call to husbands: love your wives as Christ loved the church. We outline how to show value with boundaries, words, time and attention, and we dare you to ask the hard question and listen without defense.

• The sword of the Spirit and equipping men
• Reading Ephesians 5:21–33 and its charge to husbands
• The respect–value loop at the root of conflict
• The no‑compete clause and sexual purity
• Speaking life and removing destructive words
• Time as proof of value and focused attention
• Keep dating your wife with intentional pursuit
• The dangerous question and accountable leadership

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