Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram Daily Podcast

Cultivating Spiritual Intimacy, Part 2

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25 min·February 24, 2026

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It’s safe to say we all want a great marriage. We all desire a relationship with a deep emotional, mental, and physical connection with our mate. But how do we experience that? Don’t miss the practical ways you can build a lasting relationship with your spouse.

How do you develop spiritual intimacy?

I. Spiritual intimacy with Christ is cultivated by actively believing two things:

  1. Whose you are: Chosen -Colossians 1:13-22
  2. Who you’ve become: Holy and loved -Colossians 2:9-15

II. Spiritual intimacy with your mate is cultivated by recognizing the supremacy Christ’s role and relationship in your marriage. -Colossians 1:15-18

III. The benefits of spiritual intimacy*

  • Allows you to CONNECT at the deepest level.
  • Links you with God’s PURPOSES and PLANS for you.
  • Allows you to BLESS each other with God’s love.
  • Brings your deepest values and desires into agreement.
  • Opens the door to the deepest levels of COMMUNICATION.
  • Empowers your marriage to SURVIVE.
  • Connects you to a SUPPORTIVE body of fellow believers.

*Divorce Proof Your Marriage by Gary and Barbara Rosberg, pgs. 254-256.

IV. How to develop your personal spiritual intimacy**

  • ASK God for it. -Col. 1:1-9
  • BEWARE of counterfeits. -Col. 2:8-10
  • GUARD your thought life. -Col. 3:1-4
  • KILL spiritual competitors. -Col. 3:5-7
  • SATURATE your life in God’s Word. -Col. 3:16

**Marriage that Works by Chip Ingram, specific help and practical steps for men and women; chapter 9 for men and chapter 11 for women.

V. Removing barriers and building bridges for spiritual intimacy

  • There is no one right way to develop spiritual intimacy
  • Pray together
  • Worship together
  • Share what you’re learning

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