
Bare Marriage
The Problems with the Book His Needs, Her Needs by Willard Harley
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1h 45m·May 22, 2025
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Let's take a close look at the book His Needs, Her Needs by Willard Harley! Bethany Jantzi and Ngina Otiende join me to look at some of the things that we find problematic about the book--and explain why evangelicalism needs better resources!
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