
I Choose Peace - In Relational Conflict, Part 1
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Jesus said, “My peace I leave with you.” Very likely, when we pray, peace is often what we ask for - peace in the world, peace at home, and maybe most of all, peace in our relationships - but what did Jesus mean when He said His peace? And how could that make a difference in our problem relationships today? If you or someone you know is struggling with a difficult relationship, this message is for you.
Introduction: Three approaches to peace
- Inward
- Outward
- Upward
The world’s peace: The absence of disturbance and hostility, free from internal and external strife.
God’s peace: Shalom
- Complete soundness or wholeness of health
- Harmony in relationships
- Success and fulfillment of purpose
- Victory over one’s enemies
Choosing peace in relational conflict -Philippians 4:1-5
- The context: Philippians 4:1
- The plea for unity: Philippians 4:2
- The request for competent counsel: Philippians 4:3
- The command concerning relational focus: Philippians 4:4
- The command concerning personal responsibility: Philippians 4:5
5 ways to diffuse relational conflict:
- Resolve to stop procrastinating. -Philippians 4:1
- Re-evaluate your expectations. -Philippians 4:2
- Get competent, outside help. -Philippians 4:3
- Refuse to allow one relationship to ruin your life. -Philippians 4:4
- Remember, a right response is more important than being right. -Philippians 4:5
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- "I Choose Peace" Book
- "It is Well with My Soul" by Horatio Spafford
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