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Loving People When You Don't Want To With Toni Collier

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1h 6m·August 11, 2025

About this Episode

Each one of us is worthy of deep and intentional relationships. Just look at the life of Jesus and His close circles of community. God’s design is for us to be with people, but relationships are hard.

 

The Perrys are joined by Toni Collier to talk about her new book, Don’t Try This Alone: How to Build Deep Community When You Want to Hide from Your Pain. Toni and the Perrys talk about how past hurt and betrayal can cause us to avoid community, but God has always used other people to help us heal. We fulfill His law by loving His people, so it’s time we get good at trusting others with our pain and sitting with them in theirs.

 

Pre-order Toni’s new book, Don’t Try This Alone: tonijcollier.com/notalone

Get 15% off Toni’s merch with code WTP shopetch.co/collections/toni-collier

 

Scripture references:

Philippians 1:23-24

Philippians 2:3-4

Galatians 6:2

Job 2:9-13

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